Sunday, July 31, 2011

Discrepancies and Distrust.

The phone off when you're with him.  The changing of plans to suit him.  The fact that you gave two different meetup stories - first you told me you met him at a straight meeting, then a gay meeting, then Gotham.   The fact that you keep changing the backstory suggests that there is something to hide.   Otherwise, he seems like a great guy and a good person for you to spend time with.

I however, always feel threatened when you develop a strong emotional bond with anyone else when you're single.  You shout to the high heavens about wanting to be single, but then admit after a cocktail or two that you can't be alone.  That's why I asked what happens now.

The fact that you have already met his family says something.

The fact that when you're with him, you don't care how much of a charge your phone has, but when you're not with him, your phone has to remain charged so you can always talk to him.  I might be the one helping you, but he's the one you're letting in.